Synopsis
An intimate portrait of a grandson’s grandmother who leaves her home to go and live in a nursing home.
A word from Tënk
Moves are always charged moments, when memories awaken and invite introspection. Entire chapters of our lives are dusted off as cupboards are emptied, furniture dismantled, and boxes filled. We sort, we prune, we keep… Above all, we marvel at the sheer abundance of objects accumulated over the years. Each one acts like a breach in memory, plunging us back into other times and places where many ghosts coexist. Suddenly, we have the strange impression of living several temporalities at once. This inner journey becomes all the more vertiginous when it means leaving the family home, that intimate territory shaped by decades of living.
It is this pivotal moment that filmmaker Félix Rose chooses to capture in order to paint a portrait of his grandmother, Marie-Paule, 86 years old. With disarming simplicity and a sensitive use of family archives, he manages both to pay tribute to this woman, who preserves her agency in the face of the inevitable, and to cast a deeply lucid gaze on the feelings that move through us when the time comes to leave our home. The film also opens a broader reflection on the place we give to our elders and on what it means to age well in our societies. Between the grief of saying goodbye to one’s anchors and the desire to remain in control of one’s life, it reveals the full complexity of that moment when, sooner or later, we must come to terms with leaving—and learn to inhabit differently the time that remains.
Jason Burnham
Tënk editorial manager